Anticipation

To be honest I never have said I was good at waiting for ANYTHING. As a young person I would shake the gifts under the tree and try to guess what was in them. I would try to sneak into Mom’s closet to find out what my gifts were. When I am ready for a vacation or getaway, I cannot WAIT for the plane to take off and get VERY irritable if there is a delay of any kind. I just want to scream, “Sit your fat asses down so we can take off goddammit!”

So here I sit in a filthy house (Moment of Truth – my house is ALWAYS a little cluttered, but it is RARELY filthy) with no cooking appliances, waiting on granite, tile and backsplash. The cabinets were installed so quickly (3 days) that I thought for sure that the rest of the kitchen would move along as smoothly. Mistake number 3. That’s what I get for thinking.

I know. You are wondering what Mistakes Number 1 and 2 are.

Number 1 – Thinking I would be fine with eating out all the time. Let’s be honest here! I LOVE to eat out. But the kind of food I like to eat when dining out is pricey and after the amount of $$ laid out for the renovation, it’s really fucking difficult to justify $100 for dinner several times a week. I can make do with tuna sandwishes* and other stuff for lunch and yes, I am a junk food junkie. But NO ONE, not even I, can eat like that all the damn time. I limit it to once a week.

Number 2 – Thinking I would be able to “make the best of it” and cook on the grill or my little butane burner or simply enjoy a salad. FYI – I can’t stand eating salad. When offered the choice between soup or salad, I will almost always choose the soup. I know people who do eat salad every single day (Hubby would cheerfully eat salad every day). I like hot food. I like food with layers of flavors and textures that is HOT. And if this was the summer, it would be easier to jump on the salad bandwagon, but it’s February.

John warned me I would be stir crazy. John KNEW I would be a basket case right about now. He knows me so well. What he didn’t know is that he would be just as bad as I am. We can’t find anything. We can’t really cook anything. And we are both tired of the messy house and the food we are eating. I am not sure what is stressing me out more. It’s a toss-up between the filthy house and the lack of creative release. You see, I have come to the conclusion that even though I SAY I can’t meditate, I am lying to myself. I meditate in the kitchen. By focusing on the job at hand I am able to center myself and get my shit together. Yeah, um, I don’t have that right now. So I am not centered. I am crabby and ready for this to be done. Of course it looks amazing and I am so much happier with the results to date than I ever thought possible.  Enjoy these pics of the tile work.

This is the basic pattern.  The yellow "croquet hoops" are the spacers for the grout.

This is the basic pattern. The yellow “croquet hoops” are the spacers for the grout.

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Gilbert (L) and Bobby working their magic.

Granite and more electrical on Monday and hopefully backsplash on Wednesday.  Then to paint.  Then to party…and party some more!

* I always write sandWISH

Shave and a Haircut – Two Bits!

What would you do if one of your friends or family members had cancer? Would you shave your head to show solidarity and support because they will likely be losing their hair in treatment? Each year I THINK I am going to shave my head for St. Baldrick’s on March 1st and then I chicken out.  Last year I had made the mental commitment to actually follow through with it and then I remembered that there was a family reunion to celebrate Dad’s 70th Birthday on March 20th.  It was the first time since my Grandad’s funeral in 1992 that all 5 of the siblings had been together and the FIRST time EVER that all of Dad’s grandkids had been together.  I knew if I showed up with a shaved head for the official photographer I would never have heard the end of it.

The whole Fam Damily

The whole Fam Damily

So here it is, another year later, and I was reminded by friend Al Mancini‘s FB posts that it is finally time to step up to the plate and get shaved.  Here is the thing:  St. Baldrick’s raises much needed research funds for childhood cancers.  Kids’ cancers are different from adult cancers and need to be treated differently and researched differently.  And one of the most challenging things treating infants with cancer is they can’t tell you how they really FEEL.  Years ago I dated a guy, Tony K, whose mom died of a “childhood” cancer.  It was almost unheard of for an adult to get the kind of cancer she had.  All of her treatment was FREE because she was able to talk to the doctors and tell them how she felt and what the treatments were doing to her.  She helped with research.  Well, here is my chance to something to help.

It is a joke among me and my friends that I change my hair like I change my mind. At a sales meeting a few years ago, we showed a slide show of photos taken at several different conventions.  The people in the room started laughing and I couldn’t figure out what they were laughing at.  But it was my hair!  In every single picture it was different.  A different shade of red, a different length, shape, cut, style.  Never the same! On March 1st at Ri Ra in the Mandalay Place Shoppes, I will have my head shaved for childhood cancer.  I am asking ALL of you to consider making a donation of ANY amount.  No donation is too small, $5, $10, it all adds up.  My goal is $2000, but I really want to beat my friend Al (hehehe).  I figure if he can shave his Mohawk, I can shave my crowning glory.  HERE is the link to donate. I have a little over 3 weeks to make this happen and I need YOUR help.

You can watch a Retrospective of my HAIR for a quick laugh.  There are even pics of me and my Mohawked friend so you can see all the hair that is going to disappear.  Donate, join my TEAM and agree to be shaved, show up at Ri Ra and let’s raise some much needed $$$ for Childhood Cancer Research.

A New Hope…

This is Red Leader –  Operation Happy Mama proceeding according to plan.  Installation in progress.  Please view attached images to observe progress to date:

Day 1:

The completely empty kitchen.

Before – The completely empty kitchen.

Josh and Lou inspecting the inventory.

Josh and Lou inspecting the inventory.

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Shipment in the garage. BOTH cars had to park in the driveway!

Day 2:

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Josh and Lou starting the tear out.

Josh and Lou starting the tear out.

Counters out

Counters out

Island with the sink and dishwasher dismantled.

Island with the sink and dishwasher dismantled.

Everything OUT!

Everything OUT!

Final piece of the destruction.

Jeremy tackles the final piece of the destruction.

Day 3:

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Day 4:

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John, our cabinet guy, was a Zen Fucking Master! He had EVERYTHING installed in less than 3 full days.

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Day 5:

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Day 6:

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And yes, John came in to work on Super Bowl Sunday. We didn’t mind – we don’t watch Fball and he was DONE by 1 pm!

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All cabinets and hardware installed. On to granite and tile…

Day 7 :

Electric installed back in the island.  New sockets ready and hot.

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Sink temporarily re-installed

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Yes, that’s the ORIGINAL formica island countertop with the old sink. Now you have an idea how large the NEW island really is.

Day 8:

Red Leader here – we  have a problem…

And  now I wait…  If the promptness of the granite guy’s appearance (he was 2 hours late) and his attitude are any indication, I MAY have a functioning complete kitchen by Halloween.  I can promise you, when you hire me I will show up ON TIME and if I am going to be late, I will pick up the goddamn phone!

Apparently I have to wait for the granite to come in from SoCal and THEN they cut it and THEN install it (Moment of Truth – I thought the granite was an IN STOCK item, which is one of the reasons I chose that particular one).  I thought the counters would be fabricated today and tomorrow and installed by the end of the week! According to the guy who was here yesterday, the granite won’t even BE IN LAS VEGAS until next Tuesday!  Oh, BTW, I can’t put a fucking thing in any of the lower cabinets or drawers until the counters are in.  The uppers are all filled already.  Thank you Friend Lynn for coming over and handing everything to me while I was on a ladder.  But I still have appliances, cookware, flatware, Baking Stones (yes, of course they are Pampered Chef) and Tupperware without homes, resting on every flat surface of the house.  Three tables and the guest bed are covered and the drawers are stacked EVERYWHERE.  Will the granite guys be late for each appointment?  Who the hell knows!

Today the guys come to measure for the tile flooring and the backsplash.  The floor can go in, but the backsplash has to wait until the granite guys get done.  Have I mentioned I am not good at waiting and that my fridge in plugged into an outlet in the living room?

And before you ask, yes those awful light fixtures will be replaced too, but that is WAY down the road.  I will keep you posted.

Red Leader OUT!

Starve a Fever, Feed a Cold? Soup recipe!

As a kid, I caught everything, chicken pox twice, but as an adult I am rarely sick.  When I do catch a cold, however, I am miserable.  I don’t want anyone around me.  Everything tastes wrong or bland because I am so congested and all I want to do is eat comfort food in the form of carbs and spicy stuff.  Preferably spicy soup.  I don’t even care what ethnicity it is.  Sometimes it is as simple as adding a spicy condiment to something “normal” to jazz it up.

A few of my faves are Wonton Soup with hot Chinese mustard, Vietnamese Pho, Menudo (but I don’t eat the tripe most of the time – I just like the broth), and Gumbo.  The first three soups I go out to find or order in, but the last one, I make myself (thank you Janna for teaching me how).  But yesterday I wanted something specific.

In Flagstaff there is a brewery restaurant called Beaver Street Brewing.  The food and beer are both decent (not outstanding, but reliably good), but they make this one soup as a special that wowed me the first time I had it.  It’s a Thai flavored Red Coconut Curry Chicken Soup.  Yeah, seriously.  I know.  Right now, you are trying wrap your head around that one.  I wasn’t about to drive to Flagstaff, so I had to work on getting it done for myself.  Trust me, worth it.  This version is not exactly like the one in Flagstaff.  It is more “inspired by”.  Mine is creamier and theirs doesn’t have any noodles, but all in all I am really happy with the results. (Moment of Truth – I love a good balance of sweet to spicy to salty – maybe that is why Asian foods make me so happy).

Not too many pics, but here is the recipe.  At the end I have included a few times savers if you are in a hurry.  I hope you enjoy it, because it will be the last one for a while. Tomorrow begins my kitchen renovation, and before you ask, YES I will be posting about it, complete with before, during and after pictures.

Red Curry Coconut Chicken Soup

Serves 4 – 6 generously

Prep – 15 minutes

Active time – 45 minutes

*A quick word about the ingredients:  Palm sugar, curry paste, fish sauce, bean thread, coconut milk will all be available in any well stocked Asian market.  If you are lucky you may even find the straw mushrooms.

Step One

  • 1 lb boneless skinless chicken breast
  • 2 – 3 inch pieces of lemon grass, pounded with a mallet (the smashing helps release the flavor)
  • 1-1/2 qts. chicken stock (preferably homemade) – divided

Step Two

  • 3Tbsp canola or grapeseed oil
  • 3 chiles (I used serrano) split in half lengthwise, leaving the stem end intact (see photo)
  • Chili oil (Optional)
  • ½ medium onion – finely diced
  • 2 cloves garlic – thinly sliced
  • 2 tsp palm sugar
  • 2 Tbsp fish sauce
  • Thai red curry paste (I use Mae Ploy) to taste – at least 2 Tbsp 
Notice how the stem end is in tact? Cut it like that.

Notice how the stem end is in tact? Cut it like that.

Step Three

  • 2 cans coconut milk (I used Aroy D in the green can)
  • 1 head broccoli cut into small florets
  • 2 C thickly sliced mushrooms (or whole straw mushrooms if you can find them)
These are the products I used, but you can use your faves.

These are the products I used, but you can use your faves.

 

Cooked rice or soaked bean thread (glass noodles)

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Dry bean thread. Soak it in warm water until it is pliable.

Dry bean thread. Soak it in warm water until it is pliable.

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I always buy the same bean thread – I don’t know why. And it always has this pink netting on it.

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Garnishes

  • Chiffonade Basil (Please note – never cut green herbs, especially basil, when it is wet.  It will taste bitter).
  • Cilantro leaves
  • Sliced green onion
  • Lime wedges
  • Cha!™ sauce by Texas Pete®

Step One: In a 4 qt saucepan bring 2 C of chicken stock to a simmer, add the lemon grass and let it steep for at least 5 minutes.  Add the chicken and poach until cooked through.  Remove chicken from the pan and reserve the stock in a separate bowl.  When chicken has cooled somewhat, shred with your hands into bite sized pieces.  Set aside.

Step Two: Reheat the pot on medium heat.  Add the oil.  Once the oil shimmers, toss in the peppers and allow them to blister slightly on one side.  Flip them over and add the onions to the oil.  Cook until onions start to brown and peppers are well blistered. If you are using chili oil for added heat, add that now.  Continue cooking, stirring often, until onions are golden in color with little brown flecks, about 10 minutes. Add sliced garlic and cook for 5 more minutes, stirring often.  Add reserved poaching liquid, remaining stock, palm sugar, curry paste and fish sauce.  Simmer 10 minutes to allow flavors to meld.  Using tongs, fish out the lemongrass and the peppers (you don’t want to strain it because you want to leave the onion and garlic in the soup).

Step Three: Add shredded chicken, coconut milk, broccoli and ‘shrooms and cook until broccoli is crisp tender and everything is heated through.

To serve: place desired amount of rice or bean thread in the bottom of the bowl, ladle hot soup over the top and garnish as desired.

Speed Tips:

  • Use leftover cooked chicken, shredded in place of poached or meat from a rotisserie chicken
  • Use canned chicken stock
  • Buy broccoli florets and pre-sliced ‘shrooms
  • While chicken is poaching, prep onions, garlic, and chiles.  While onions are cooking, prep broccoli and ‘shrooms
  • While the soup is simmering, prep the garnishes.

 

Chefs to the Max

Sunday 19 January 2014 will forever be engraved in my mind as one of the best dining days of my entire life!  That night was the first of the Chefs to the Max events in support of injured food writer Max Jacobson.  Max was hit by a car while crossing the street 2 days before Xmas and remains in critical condition.  This dinner was a coming together of nearly every power house chef (22 of them to be exact) with a resto in Vegas.  It was AWESOME!!!  Hosted by friend Chef Rick Moonen at Rx Boiler Room, it was everything you would expect and so much more.  In addition to the fab food there was a silent and live auction.  I volunteered my time to work the silent auction AND John paid for tix for us to enjoy the meal as well.  I can’t include ALL of the 109 pics here for you to view, HOWEVER, if you go to my Facebook page, they will all be there.  Suffice it to say that the food was incredible.  Here is the Menu, signed by all of the Chefs:

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Signed menu from all of the participating Chefs. Yes, it will be framed!

So, of course there are stand out moments with every culinary event of this magnitude and I will share mine with you.  In no particular order:

Funny – After having my purse knocked to the ground for the 5th time (it was a tight room), being cheeky, I mentioned to a manager that I would put my purse on the empty chair at the end of the table.  “By the way,” I said, “when I ate at Alex [now closed Michelin starred resto that was in the Wynn] they gave me a foot stool for my purse.”  And the manager says, “Well, I suggest you talk to the guy at the other end of the table. That’s Chef Alex Stratta.”  I laughed out loud!  I had no idea!  FYI – Las Vegans, Chef Alex is back at the helm at Marche Bacchus – you need to go!  BTW – Marche owner Jeff Wyatt joined us and took the empty “purse chair”.

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Chef Bradley Ogden (L) stopping by our table to chat with Chef Alex Stratta (R)

Awe Inspiring – I had heard all sorts of stuff about Chef Thomas Keller, but had never had the chance to eat any of his food or meet him until Sunday.  He is a very nice man and a Zen Fucking Master in the kitchen.  It was peaceful, quiet and a hush was over the kitchen as everyone was in awe of this genius at work.  Everyone was gracious enough to allow me to come and go as I pleased to take all the pics I wanted and I was able to watch Chef Thomas work his magic.  He PERSONALLY sauced each and every one of his dishes that came out of the kitchen.  And his dish was my fave of the night.

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Chef Thomas Keller working his magic.

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The Legendary Roasted Chicken

The Legendary Roasted Chicken

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Giddy – As a waitron I sat through many pre-shift meetings and most of them were boring.  THIS pre-shift was amazing.  I was thrilled to be able to listen in as the Chefs talked about their respective dishes and give pointers on how to present.  What was even more amazing to me was how charming I found it that Bobby Flay and Bradley Ogden were taking pics of the other Chefs during their presentations.  I have NEVER been in that small space with that much talent in my life.  If I am going to be honest, I was completely twitter pated and titillated.

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Pre-shift Chefs working with the wait staff. Who do you recognize?

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The Chefs were just as giddy as I was I think.

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All in all, nearly $300K was raised in one night to help Max and his family.  There will be more events.  Stay tuned here and on my FB page to details about upcoming opportunities to participate.

Chef Mike Minor and me.

Chef Mike Minor and me.

For more great pics click here and here.

Questions, thoughts comments?

An Attitude of Gratitude

This is kind of a follow up from last week – less about food, but follow to the end for the FOOD part, and more about life in general.

Simple Abundance

Several years ago while watching Oprah and feeling sorry for myself, because I only ever watched Oprah when I was feeling sorry for myself, I saw a woman named Sarah Ban Breathnach. She talked about feeling gratitude for simple things and creating a Gratitude Journal.  She even has a book (of which I have a copy) called Simple Abundance to teach you how. (Moment of Truth – I have tried several times to get through this book for more than 10 years, and I fail each time, but it doesn’t stop me from trying anew each year.) So I began a life of gratitude that week.

Flash forward to December 10th of 2013. I was contacted by a cancer survivor, Heather. She is a SURVIVOR of a rare type of cancer, mesothelioma (read her story HERE). She asked me to participate in a personal project for the blogosphere that she was working on.  She asked me to share in my blog what I was grateful for. Ok!  Cool Project, I am IN! My first thought was, “I am pretty good at this gratitude thing. I have been working on a gratitude journal on and off for years now. This should be easy.” I know that my life is better when I focus on the gratitude. Hell, each week a group of friends and I share what we are grateful for on Mondays through a private Facebook message.  We call it the “Monday Gratefuls”.  Easy right?  Oh REALLY…and then I got to thinking, about the past no less. Yes, dangerous, I know.

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But I had to learn about gratitude. I grew up in a perpetual state of want.  I always wanted more than what was available to me, on every level. I grew up in a small rural town after having lived on Long Island.  I wanted to move back there. I wanted to leave the country life, I hated it (and still do). I wanted new clothes, not hand me downs. I wanted not to have to grow my own food. I wanted SO MUCH. ALL THE TIME. I didn’t know about gratitude, because all I could feel was want. My life is VERY different now. My childhood was ROUGH, with abuse at the forefront. But guess what? I lived through it and I am stronger and more capable because of (or maybe in spite of) all that happened to me. I am amazing now. I have been rebuilt. I had the technology. I am better, stronger, faster (bonus points for you if you know where I paraphrased from).

So here, for Heather and for everyone reading this, a list of 10 things I am grateful for EVERY day:

  1. Supportive friends, family and chosen family.
  2. My husband of 26 years who loves me because of AND in spite of myself. He encourages me to be my best self.
  3. My grown ass son is healthy.
  4. A full pantry because that was not always the case.
  5. A skill set culled from a shitty childhood that allows me to do things others find impossible. (And according to my son would help me survive the Zombie Apocalypse.)
  6. My itinerant 21 year life as an Air Force wife. 13 moves in 21 years introduces you to a TON of people and helps you learn new things, whether you want to be taught or not.  See #1 –many of the friends came via this experience.
  7. Teachers who instilled in me a love of knowledge for the sake of just KNOWING things (I am a fount of useless information now).
  8. Travel and the experiences it affords me.
  9. Strength – of mind, body and spirit.
  10. Facebook – yes really.  It has allowed me to reconnect with people I thought long gone from my life.  And I get to see pics of my nieces and nephews all the time!
My Grand Niece Grace - apparently my love of shoes is genetic.
My Grand Niece Grace – apparently my love of shoes is genetic.

So be grateful for who you are and what you have.  What are YOU grateful for?  Share in the comments, I’d really like to know!

On another note of Gratitude, I am grateful to have the scratch to participate in Chefs to the Max to benefit food writer Max Jacobson who was hit by a car while crossing the street 2 days before Xmas.  he remains in critical condition.  To learn more, click on the links.  The first event is Sunday January 19th at RX Boiler Room at Mandalay Bay.  There are about 30 tickets remaining for this star studded culinary event (Of course I will post pics!) and if you are in Vegas and can attend, you should!  A fish throwdown with Bobby Flay and Rick Moonen?  Yes, really!

And CHEERS to Heather and her recovery and survivor-ship! Many long and happy years to you!

In the Moment

My Dad told me that he took his watch off April 25th 2007 and hasn’t put it back on since. WHY?  He had a massive heart attack that day and decided that what was going on around him was so much more important than what was going on with the face of his watch. 

In July 1985 I had a similar experience. I nearly died in a car wreck. First they thought I was dead, and then they thought I was paralyzed. If I had pics of the car or me after the accident, I’d post them. As I lay in bed watching Live Aid in the hospital room I made a decision to live in the moment. I made a decision to embrace everything that was thrown at me. I made a decision to take risks and live as if each and every day was my last. I know I did some unpopular things. I know I did some things that pissed off other people.  That’s just too fucking bad. I think I have done a pretty good job with what was thrown at me.

Dad and I geared up to jump out of a plane!

Dad and I geared up to jump out of a plane!

So, why talk about this here? Because sometimes I forget and sometimes I need to be reminded. In March 2010 I received a phone call that changed my life and career path.  Initially I said no, but hubby John encouraged me to say yes, even with the negative circular dialog in my head:

  • What if I fuck up?
  • What if they hate me?
  • What if I can’t do what they want?
  • Is anyone going to yell at me? I can’t take that shit!
  • Isn’t there anyone more qualified for this job?

IMHO – if you don’t stretch your comfort zone, you never really grow. Risk taking has to become part of your regular life. It’s funny, I am perfectly comfortable taking risks with money and my well-being, but when it comes to putting myself out there for potential ridicule, I pull up on the reins. I have no idea how theater people and musicians do it!  I will jump out of a plane or rappel down a waterfall, but auditioning makes me CRAZY – like can’t sleep, vomiting in the trashcan crazy.  But I am determined to take more risks and put myself out there even more (as witnessed by launching myself onto the web). Luckily I have a few cheerleaders and a couple of coaches in my corner. If you don’t have that, you might be hanging around with the wrong people.

So here are my wishes for you for 2014:

  • I wish you would live in the moment! Put down the damn phone during social gatherings after you “check in” and LIVE IN THE NOW, not on the web. FB will be there when the friends are gone, enjoy the friends while you are with them.  And take pictures so you remember the days!

Celebrating friend Janet's birthday at Pinot Brasserie

Celebrating friend Janet’s birthday at Pinot Brasserie

  • I wish you would take chances you never thought to take before.
  • I wish you would follow your gut and go for it!
  • I wish you would create a Vision Board for what you want.
  • I wish you would try new food and, new restaurants

Friend Christian getting ready to eat balut - look it up.

Friend Christian getting ready to eat balut – look it up.

2013 was filled with chances for me to stretch, grow and spread my wings. Did I take all of them? I am not sure. Did I take as big a bite of life as I would have liked? Maybe. 2014 will be filled with challenges and changes and I am ready. Tomorrow is my birthday and the official beginning of LeAnne-uary. I plan to celebrate all month long, so if you are reading this and see me out and about in Vegas – buy me a drink! It’s my birthday dammit!

What are you going to do in 2014?  Other than launching this site, what do you think I should do in 2014 (other than stop smoking and cussing so much, Mom)?  Share in the comment section – I’d love to hear!

Next week?  Attitude of Gratitude – Live it, Love it!

The Best Things I Ate (and Drank) in 2013

First off, welcome to my new site.  I am thrilled to be here and I hope you come back frequently and visit.  Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and post comments and SHARE this site with those you love and those you think will love me (haha).  Changes you can expect to see now that I have my own space are more frequent recipes, more info on what I do for a living and how to hire me, and more info on where I eat and what’s good.  Rest assured you will see pics of my evolving kitchen remodel (slated to start on 27 January).  As always I will try to keep this a positive space, so you won’t read any negative reviews, but my snark and foul language will continue to come through on lifestyle issues.  And now on to the food…

In no particular order and with photos (all by me) when possible here are the best things I ate all year long.  I apologize for the photo quality on some of them, but if you have been following along, you know that I just bought my new camera and the pics will be better from here on out!

The Fried Game Hen at Rx Boiler Room

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Chicken Liver with Blackberry Jam on toast at animal

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It’s simple and delicious.  Their menu changes seasonally, so if it isn’t available the first time you go, try again.  And it’s ridiculously cheap – like $3

Butterscotch and Bacon Pot de Crème at Comme Ca (Vegas)

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Yeah, I know it almost seems like overkill, but I can promise you, it isn’t.  I think I officially fell in love with Brian Howard after eating this.  And why yes!  That IS chocolate covered bacon!  My pic is shitty. For a good one, check out the article in Desert Companion.

THIS deconstructed Gin & Tonic at The Bazaar by Jose Andreas

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It was gorgeous and just as tasty as it looked and yes, I did eat the nasturtiums!  And apparently it is so popular a drink that you can even see pics of it on their website.

Poutine Twist at Beachwood BBQ & Brewing  in Long Beach, CA

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They call it Tater Tot Casserole on the menu, but I am going to tell you it is just Poutine turned on its ear.  I love poutine and I thought it was fine just the traditional way.  Yeah, I have changed my mind after eating this.  Tater tots instead of fries with duck confit and duck gravy…oh hell yeah!  This shitty pic from my phone doesn’t do it justice.

The Fresh Roasted Chili Dawg at Gordon Ramsay BurGRPlanet Hollywood, Vegas

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I love a hot dog as much as the next girl, but to return to a burger joint to eat a hot dog is extreme even for me.  This “dawg” did it for me.  Natural casing, a must for me!  Spicy!  Perfectly over the top!

Horsefeather at Village Idiot

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Ok- this has become my go to drink when I am not sure what I want.  It’s really a twist on a Presbyterian and great all year long, regardless of the season.  It’s rye whiskey, ginger BEER (not the weak sister ginger ale) and enough Angostura bitters to make it pink.  This photo is not from the Village Idiot.

Pimento Cheese at Southern Art and Bourbon Bar – Buckhead Georgia

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I know!  It is absolutely fucking wrong for a Yankee such as me to love southern food as much as I do.  I am telling you I wanted to pick up the little pot it came in and lick it clean.  I had to stop myself from sticking my fingers in and scraping the sides…honest!  The house made crackers that came with it were incidental.

Red Chile Goat Tacos (Chivo) from Desnudo Tacos

Newly opened by Chris Palmeri and Christian Dolias, Desnudo serves up authentic real food.  It’s not fancy, just fabulous.  Their website is under construction, but in the meantime you can follow along on Facebook.  And no, I don’t have a damn picture.  I ate mine too fast!  You can see some pics of the food on FB.

And finally…THIS Jamon de Serrano that hubby bought for us as a holiday treat.  I love it not only because it tastes delicious, but also because it reminds me of when John and I were first married and lived in Madrid.  We served it up on T-giving and everyone in attendance enjoyed it.  Special thanks to Chef Beni Velazquez from Bar+Bistro for starting it off for me.  I was so overwhelmed by its wholeness that I was afraid to ruin it.  And FYI Beni is NOT Batman, my nephew Logan is.  Just ask him.

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Happy New Year to all of you – PLEASE don’t drink and drive!  PLEASE drink responsibly!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What Possessed Me?!

Why would I, a seemingly intelligent woman with a lot of holiday obligations, think that the end of the year would be a good time to devote countless hours learning to become an internet presence?  I like things to start on the 1st and end on the 30th.  Start in January and end in December.  Get it?  I like and need deadlines.  Even numbers and concrete start and end dates work for me.    THAT’S what possessed me in October to launch my own website.  I thought it should be as easy as Blogspot; just choose a few things, plug in some info and photos and voila!  Little did I know that there was a helluva lot more to it than a simple plug & play job.  TONS of decisions needed to be made on everything from host, template and design to colors, pictures and content.  And each choice came not only with a HOW but with a WHY.  So I have been worked up, worked over and generally distressed (albeit excited) for the past two months.

Some people say that launching a website is like giving birth.  I beg to differ.  It is more like getting the crazy idea to ask that hottie out on a date.  When you ask someone out, you are making yourself INCREDIBLY vulnerable.  What if they say no?  What if they laugh at you?  What if they just walk away?  But they COULD say “yes”!  Putting yourself out there on the web, feels like doing the same thing.  The people still may say no, laugh at you or “walk” away, but they may also say “YES”!

Working with pros that I trust and have confidence in made the process so much easier. Thankfully I have had amazing help and support from two fantastic friends who are professionals in fields necessary to make this project work – Byron Gronseth (graphic design) and Erroin Martin (business coach and web design).  They have guided and coached me in just the right way.  Thanks guys, you are the best.  I needed to be OPEN to criticism and suggestion, from friends no less.  Here are a few examples:

  • I had a single idea in my head of what I wanted my logo to look like and Byron dutifully drew a mock-up.  Once I saw it I realized how truly ridiculous it was.  Byron, having good sense, had alternatives ready for me to look at because he KNEW it was ridiculous, but told me in the gentlest possible way, with a chuckle in his voice, offering alternatives.  FYI – the new logo looks nothing like I originally envisioned.
  • I loved my little point and shoot camera.  It fit into all of my handbags and I THOUGHT it took pretty good pictures.  Erroin told me to go get a new camera (Moment of Truth – I spent more on this ONE camera than I have on ALL of my cameras in my lifetime COMBINED).  Now I realize my little camera takes great pictures of people and suck ass pics of food, and that’s what you all really want to see!  Old camera on left – New camera on right.

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  • Byron lives in Seattle and Erroin lives in NoCal – and yes I am still in Vegas – but I learned there is so much more than Skype out there for videoconferencing.  Did you know you can share screens?  Well hot damn!  Don’t ask me to set it up, but I know how to link in if you invite me!
  • Both were incredibly patient with me while I learned a new language, tried to explain myself and adjusted to the fact that I didn’t know what the hell I was talking about. (I just found out what a “favicon” is, even though I insist on calling it a “FLAVicon”.  I have one BTW.)
  • They both encouraged me to be true to myself and stop trying to be so fucking proper.  I am having fun discovering my authentic self (in print and online) and not focusing on what I think everyone expects.  Huge thank you to THIS BOOK by Erika Napoletano.

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 And mostly thank you to my supportive spouse John.  He took a simple conversation and ran with it.  While we were talking, he went online, bought my domain and then said, “Congratulations!  You ARE GoodforSpooning.com.  Now what are you going to do with it?”  He made everything possible not only financially, but helped me stretch my comfort zone and forced me to jump into the “big kids” pool.

These are the last words on Blogspot – next Tuesday Good for Spooning launches and the blog will be there, along with more info about me, my job and how you can hire me to improve your events.

Here goes SOMETHING…

 

How to be a Good Guest this Holiday Season (or any time, really)

The mantra when I was growing up was, “Never show up at someone’s house empty-handed.” I still adhere to that rule, but what does it EXACTLY mean? Each time I go to a friend’s house I should bring something? Well…not precisely. Here are a few guidelines for you. And if you are coming to MY house for any festivities please know this is NOT a hint.

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Fall is for families.

When to bring something:
 If you are an overnight guest in someone’s home
 If you have never been to this home before. Especially important if it is a coworker or business associate
 If there is a party going on. A small gift for the host(ess) lets them know you appreciate the invitation. Friend Sam has a HUGE catered Xmas party every year, and even though I have been to her home numerous times, I always bring a little something.

When NOT to bring something:
 If the host has specifically asked you not to (a planned menu or catered event might be disrupted by an unexpected dessert showing up).
 If you spend as much time at the host’s house as your own. For example, Friends Laurie, Lynn and I are always at one another’s homes. We’d go broke gifting for each other!

What to bring:
 Sweets are almost always welcome
 ANYTHING homemade – baked goods, jams, jellies, soaps, etc. They are all great ways to show appreciation in a very personal way
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Lovely Mead that Friends Tina and Nate brought. Extra special because of the custom labels.

 Alcoholic gifts – see rule below* – Wine, spirits, funky cool barware, all good choices
 Flowers – because according to my husband, “Bitches love flowers.”

 Anything from your garden – If you have fab herbs or an abundance of veggies, it’s always nice to share.

There are exceptions to every rule, so always use your best judgment. My friends Bobby & Chris invited me to their upstate NY country home for a long weekend and I had no idea what to expect, and since I flew there, I didn’t want to pack anything extra. When I returned home I sent them a thank you gift appropriate for that house and stocked their NYC fridge with goodies from the corner store. As an overnight guest, taking your hosts out for a meal is also a fab idea. They appreciate the gesture and it takes pressure of a meal off them.

As for being a good host(ess) – don’t EXPECT gifts, but be gracious when they are given. Personally, if it is something edible, I always ask if we should open it and share it that day. Flowers immediately go into water.

Enjoy the Holidays with your friends and family, and be on the lookout for my Holiday shopping guide coming soon to this blog!

*KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE – when I was a very young newlywed wife, John and I were invited to dinner at one of his classmates’ homes. Of course we brought a bottle of wine. Yeah, well, they were Mormon (I had never met any LDS folks before so I didn’t know the drill). Needless to say I was mortified, right up until they showed us a “recruiting video”….