Take Me Out the Ball Game!

For those of you who know me, you know this is AWESOME~!

I love baseball and I am a true, win or lose, Yankee fan. For the first time in my life I was able to attend a Yankee game in Yankee Stadium. And joy of joys, it was inter-league play and they were playing the Mets!

My first ever live baseball game was at Shea Stadium, back in the 80’s, box seats behind first base. A road trip with a long forgotten guy I dated briefly and the only things there were to eat then at the stadium were the things you think of when you think of baseball. Hot dogs, beer, popcorn, Cracker Jacks, peanuts and soft pretzels were the order of the day. Since then I have been to other fields and the changes in food have run the spectrum from the days of yore.

At Wrigley Field (home of the Chicago Cubs) you can get all of your Chicago faves – Italian Beef (sweet & natural if you please), dogs topped Chicago style, pizza, and just about anything else you can think of. A few years ago I was able to see baseball in the sun, the way it was meant to be played, at Wrigley with Sister Tina!

At Rangers Ballpark in Arlington, Texas there is a bar & grill where you can sit by the windows and watch batting practice. And in the park itself, you can get Shiner Bock on tap and of course BBQ – it is Texas you know! (Moment of Truth – I love Shiner on tap and I go out of my way to find bars that carry it).
Jack at Arlington in 2005.

The new Yankee Stadium is amazing! Of course there are all the usual things you would WANT to eat at the ball park, but there are also great locally brewed beers, a steak house and, believe it or not, a Yankee themed Hard Rock Café, complete with a pinstriped, oversized guitar in the entrance. We saw sliders of multiple descriptions, sausages, fried chicken, nachos, wraps and pizza in addition to the old standbys. And here is the BEST part – if you have “field level” seats (which we did, thanks to my loving hubby, we were in section 118 20 rows back from Home Plate!) there are waiters to bring you a limited menu so you don’t have to wait in line for the basics and you won’t miss any more of the game than necessary! One of the things we (and by we, I mean John) had to wait in line for was a Carvel sundae in a plastic Yankee cap.

The gate we entered to get to our seats right behind home plate.

The view from our seats.

The three of us in our Yankee gear.

All in all, despite a stomach flu that swept the whole family (no kidding), our trip to NYC was great. Not the least of which was a long awaited fab dinner at Barbuto with Friends Bobby & Chris. I can safely attest that the roasted chicken I had there is seriously the best I have ever had. They weren’t lying when they said that Jonathan Waxman was Obi-Wan Kenobi with a chicken. I am still a little pissed my dear friends wouldn’t allow me to pay even part of it – thanks again guys, but they have promised to come here to Vegas and let me spoil them. And let’s not talk about how intimate I became with the sidewalk on the way home. Don’t worry, stiletto shoes, jeans and jewelry are all fine.

Ovens at Barbuto

Salumi plate – FYI – I used those bread sticks as chop sticks to serve with.

The perfect roast chicken.

Food Memories this week are a foot long hot dog brought to me by a waiter at Yankee Stadium, Mister Softee, Barbuto chicken and a delicious rosé wine, brunch with Geoff and Sarah, and beer and conversation with Friend Tim.

At the bar with Tim.

John with his Mr. Softee – oh, BTW he is obsessed with Mr. Softee in much the same way Ray in Ghostbusters is with the The Stay-Puft Marshmallow Man.

With Chris, Bobby and Jack at Barbuto.

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

On a side note – changes are coming to this blog. Stay tuned for the next chapter!

Secret Agent Man?

When I was a waitron (to quote Anthony Bourdain) I had the dubious pleasure, twice, of waiting on Food Critics. In both instances they were NOT known to be food critics. I just had a feeling. With the second one, when his article came out, my words about the menu were duplicated in print, and I was grateful I had guessed rightly and gave my best possible service.

Whatever happened to the days of the anonymous food critic? Here in Vegas our food writers are HIGHLY recognizable, one and all. Their styles vary drastically; one tries to write only positive things; one complains about nearly everything; one seems to write only what the advertisers of the rag he writes for WANT him to say and yet another vacillates between styles 1 and 3. I agree with all of them from time to time, some more than others. To a one they are all visible on the food scene, and if I recognize each of them on sight, I am quite sure all the waiters and Maitre D’s know them as well.

Is it possible for them to write really honest reviews or critiques when they are so recognizable? I am certain that I, and the public at large, don’t get the same service they do. I am vaguely convinced that they get perks from the house from time to time. Do these perks influence their opinion of the dining experience? When the Chef makes a special appearance at their table to say howdy, the house buys a round of drinks or the kitchen sends out amuse bouche not on the menu, how can their dining experience be equitable to that of the anonymous diner who experiences none of this? On the writers’ side of it, do they REALLY want to write a bad review and hurt someone’s feelings? Do they really want to piss off people who may need to serve them in the future? With some people, I know they are only happy when they are complaining, but for the most part I think the writers WANT to say nice things.

I am NOT saying these folks know nothing about food – they DO! That is why, for the most part, they are so highly respected and sought after diners. Because of their popularity and visible presence on the food scene, restaurants LOVE to have them be seen eating in their dining rooms. It’s kinda like having a celeb at your party. If you invite the cast of the Avengers to your party (Moment of Truth – I am not sure if I want to be Black Widow or Pepper Potts – Black Widow has the better costume, but Pepper has the better man), you KNOW people will be excited to be there and everyone will show up and have on their best party attitude, and your NEXT party is sure to be a success as well because everyone wants to be seen with someone famous. The same is true for celebs in the food world and make no mistake about it, Food Writers have become celebs. People like me who know who’s who will always spot the writers and wonder, “Are they eating here because they LIKE it, or because they are getting ready to write about it?”

My question is, “How can a regular person trust that he is going to get that same stellar treatment when he reads a glowing food review?” You may say there are other means to determine if a restaurant is a good choice for you. And there are, but none of them are really reliable when you consider that some of the people commenting on the online sources don’t know what good food is really supposed to be. Don’t even get me started on Yelp!

I long for the days of the Gael Greene of old. Reservations made under an assumed name, no one knowing for sure who is doing the writing. Then I could be assured of getting the unvarnished truth and the writer could be assured of getting the same food and service that Average Joe gets.

Gael Greene

Secret Agent Man

This week was a stay at home, cook and be loved kinda week including gnocchi from scratch. Nothing really exciting other than being with my 2 fave guys, so the Food Memories are a little on the boring side.

Next week? Yankee Stadium and the food therein!

Until next time, go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

Memorial Day

As a retired Military wife, it would be easy for me to do a blog on Military Service. 13 moves in 21 years; pride in my husband’s Air Force Career; the globe spanning friends I have, etc. But think about the word MEMORIAL…it’s about memories.

It would be easy for me to write about Holiday BBQ’s and long weekends. But I won’t.

I always write about Food Memories and the people who help me make them, but this weekend at an outdoor concert – English Beat FYI – during Punk Rock Bowling weekend, I realized everything old is new again. I watched this crowd of people and there was no ONE singular style, age bracket or other identifier. The things that did stand out were the Mohawks. For those of you who didn’t know, I had a modified ‘hawk back in the day, complete with bleach blond tips on my red spikes. I haven’t seen this many ‘hawks since I was in college! It astounded me.

Of course that led me to think about food trends that come and go in waves. For years restaurateurs could only use what was in season, what was locally produced or procured and they made the best of it. With advanced shipping and commercial farming procedures, restaurateurs had access to far-away ingredients and out of season ingredients. And that’s the way it was for years; putting all things on the menu at all times regardless of the appropriateness of it. We all suffered for it. Poor quality and crappy, tasteless produce, just because we COULD get it. And of course we all still fall prey to wanting those strawberries in December, and they almost always taste like cardboard.

These days there is a resurgence in shopping locally, using only in season ingredients and using everything! For ages, people would never think twice about using an entire animal and eating ANY part of any animal. Chris Cosentino from Incanto, in San Francisco, is amazing. He has really upped the ante in using the ENTIRE animal. Until a few years ago I rarely ate any offal at all – only livers – but now I am a JUNKIE for sweetbreads and I also love kidney. And I have Brian Howard to thank for my introduction to pig brain mayo – yes, really.

Check out used bookstores and thrift shops for OLD cookbooks and you will find numerous recipes for offal and little used produce. When was the last time you ate a persimmon? Brussels Sprouts? Fiddle head ferns? Whole artichokes? Dandelion greens? Try thinking of something old and making it new again. As the song goes, try revitalizing your taste buds and remember, everything old is new again.

Food Memories this week include eating with High School friend Jimmy S. at Herbs & Rye, smoking a turkey in my Big Green Egg; snacking, drinking and dancing my way down Fremont Street with hubby and friend Dani B.

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

Behind the Scenes at Vegas Uncork’d

I love a Foodie event as much as the next person, and once a year I get the opp to work one of the BIGGEST in my city. Let me tell you it is VERY different than simply putting on a cocktail dress and attending one!

A few years ago I was contacted by an old friend from High School who wanted me to work with him when he came to town for Bon Appetit’s Vegas Uncork’d. Initially I demurred and said that my skill set wasn’t what Tim thought it was, and then, after much persuasion, I relented and participated. And I have been doing so each year for T.W. Garner – the makers of Texas Pete Hot Sauce.

When you walk into an event like this and see all the uber-cool Chefs and sample all their food, did you ever stop to wonder what goes into it? Well, let me fill you in on a LITTLE bit of what I saw.

Weeks, in some cases MONTHS, before the event, chefs start working on their sampling menu. Should they showcase something on the regular menu? Feature a potential NEW item to get customer reactions? Create something exclusive for this event? In the case of Texas Pete (TXP from here on out), because there is no brick and mortar location here in Vegas, whatever we make is to showcase the sauces and it changes every year.

Because TXP travels in from Winston-Salem, NC, there are a LOT of logistics that go into making the whole scene happen. Product, banners, logo merchandise and specific food items need to be shipped in. This year pork bellies from Newman Farm arrived for braising (previous years included Wagyu beef, Newman Farm pork tenderloin and edible flowers), chef’s jackets with embroidered logos and cases of sauces arrived. The biggest challenge is that because TXP doesn’t have a restaurant here, we work as guests in a local hotel kitchen, and sometimes the shipped in products don’t end up where they are s’posed to go. There is undoubtedly confusion on the part of the shippers AND the receivers and the packages get misdirected. A few things did NOT arrive and there was last minute knees bent running about to fix the problems.

This year we had the pleasure of working with Caesar’s team and Chef Scott Green. They were incredibly accommodating and it was even better that the event was held AT Caesar’s and we didn’t have to transport all the goods from another property the night of the event as we have done in the past (major pain in the ass). We did, however, walk MILES of underground tunnels to get from the loading docks to the kitchens to the pool area (where the event was held) and back. (Moment of Truth – I lost 5 lbs this week because of all the walking, “weight” lifting and lack of time to eat). I worked in the kitchens and tunnels and I worked in the booth helping to put out Chef Tim’s creations.

I have no horse in this race so why do I do it? I can promise you that it isn’t the money. It’s mainly for the challenge I guess. I LIKE problem solving. I like being behind the scenes, knowing that I helped pull together a good event and seeing all the insider stuff. For those of you that don’t know, I am NOT a CHEF (I am a really good cook) and I work from home. Each year after this event it takes me 3 days to recover from the week of 16 hour days. I am physically and mentally exhausted. Is it because I don’t work full time that I don’t have the stamina to do this on an extended basis? Am I a wimp, a whiner, a cry baby? Yeah, maybe a little…I think next year I may just put on the cocktail dress and attend rather than work it…nah, just kidding. One thing I know for sure is that I DON’T want to be a Chef. They work too hard.

Biggest downer? My apron was stolen/lost at the Grand Tasting and my phone with all my cool pics on it is now GONE, along with everyone’s contact info. So there’s only one pic and I am not in it! If TXP shares the photos with me, I will post them in an addendum blog.

Left to right – Chef Larry McFadden, Chef Tim Grandinetti, and Chef Nate Duensing – I am their cohort in crime for this event.

This week’s Food Memories include some great bites at The Grand Tasting, Saturday Night Truck Stop at Tommy Rockers and Mother’s Day Brunch at Simon complete with a Bloody Mary bar.

Because I failed to get cocktail sauce for my shrimp, I added them to my Texas Pete spiked Bloody Mary. Oh, and BTW, Chef Kerry Simon tweeted Texas Pete Garlic Hot Sauce as his hot sauce of the week.

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories.

Earth Day and William Shakespeare

As I do every year on the 23rd of April, I remember my fave English teacher from High School – Frank Sullivan – and I revel in the way he taught me to LOVE Shakespeare. In case you were wondering, Shakespeare died on his birthday, April 23rd. (Another author who died April 23rd is Miguel de Cervantes from Alcala, Spain – we saw his home when we lived in Spain. Sully introduced me to him too – via Man of LaMancha). Thanks Sully!

Sunday was Earth Day and like any eco-minded citizen I was thinking of how what I do has an impact on Mother Earth. (Moment of truth – I hate it when people use “impact” as a verb.) Recently while traveling I had some food trash to toss and I was searching for a bin while waiting in line. One of my fellow travelers pointed out a recycling bin to me and I explained that it was TRASH, not recyclables. He went on a tirade about how he didn’t see the point in recycling because it didn’t make anything “cheaper”. In a controlled voice (difficult for me, let me assure you), I explained that recycling wasn’t about making things cheaper it was about not turning our planet into a gigantic landfill of steaming trash. Because he was truly ignorant and unwilling to learn, I recited the line about teaching a pig to sing in my head and turned my back on him.

I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do. Edward Everett Hale

Therein lies the truth to everything, but in my mind particularly to Earth Day. So here, in addition to recycling, is what I do to make a small difference:
– I have used canvas sacks for my groceries since 1988 – once again I was fashionable before it was cool. I now have too many bags – John says I need to get rid of some and pass them on to other eco-minded people. Call me if you want to own one of my collection.
– Our herb/veggie garden is organic. It’s not only about keeping chemicals off our food, it’s about not killing bees and not putting crap into our VERY shallow water table here in the desert.
– Support local Farmers, Co-Ops and Farmers’ Markets – I pick my own at Gilcrease, shop the Farmers’ Markets when I can get there (great for interesting, uncommon stuff, but WAY more expensive. Be prepared for a little sticker shock), and I recently started using Bountiful Baskets check them out! Not only are you supporting and encouraging local business, but locally produced food you buy doesn’t have to be flown in!
– I began composting – I know according to my HOA that I am not supposed to. But mine is contained, has no odor and my neighbors don’t even know I have it because it is well maintained. You can buy a bin at Costco or other retailer, here’s a pic of the one I use, and set it up in your back yard and get your own heap going.
– I buy sustainably caught, raised, and procured meat and fish when possible. Check out Monterey Aquarium’s Seafood Watch info on Sustainable Seafood. There’s even an app for your phone so you can check on the go! Thanks Rick Moonen for the education! Also check out Blue Oasis Shrimp (available at Albertson’s across the Vegas Valley) – grown in a sustainable facility in the desert believe it or not! No freezing, no jet fuel used for delivery, cleanly raised organic shrimp!
– I drive a car big enough for my purposes that gets at least 25 MPG on the highway.
– I support environmental charities like The Arbor Day Foundation.

To celebrate Earth Day this year, I made a Mainly Meatless dinner (of course there was bacon) of great seasonal veggies and falafel for dinner. The Meatless Monday movement has taken hold, but I don’t participate. I eat whatever strikes my fancy and if Veggie Night is Thursday instead of Monday, so what?

I challenge you to look at how you shop, eat, garden, recycle and see if you can make a small (or big) change that will make you feel like you are contributing to the GREEN solution.
This is what part of my garden looks like today. You see strawberries, mint, thyme, marjoram, mint and a tomato plant in the pot.

This week’s Food Memories are eating fiddle head ferns for the first time in more than 15 years (LOVE them), finding a vintage copy (older than I am!) of Larousse Gastronomique during a Cash Mob outing to Dead Poets Books, sushi and beer with the Bells, A fun Beer Festival at Tivoli Village, my first trip to the Downtown Farmers Market, and harvesting my own leeks! This weekend you can find me at the Foodie Fest at the Silverton. A portion of the proceeds will be going to my pet charity – Three Square Food Bank. Hope to see you there!

John at the Beer Fest

You Truly ARE What You Eat

There is some truth to the saying, “You are what you eat.” That doesn’t mean if you eat a lot of chicken you are afraid of everything, or that because my nickname in a certain circle is “Sister Flaming Hair, Goddess of the Cheese” that I have a cheesy personality. What it does mean is what you put into your body will affect how you look.

Let’s take those super skinny women. You know the type, the ones who eat fat free cheese and sour cream, organic soy protein, and no butter ever passes their mouths. They are so thin you could break their collar bone with a good pinch. Perfectly unattractive to me, and they usually look miserable. Now look at a well rounded woman. The type who eats what tastes good, carrying womanly weight, and smiling while she is going about her life. But did you REALLY look at them? Is your perception of what is attractive skewed by main stream media? Is thin always better than thick? Check out their skin, nails and hair. The super skinny people who eat all that fat free crap almost always have shitty looking hair. It looks dry, brittle and thin. Their nails and cuticles are dry and splitting and don’t even get me started on their skin. People carrying a bit more weight usually have fantastic hair. The fact of the matter is that your body NEEDS a certain amount of fat to build keratin, which in turn makes for healthy skin and nails.

Are you old enough to remember THIS? Hanker for a Hunka Cheese

I do admit that when I see a really thin person I have to wonder, “Are they naturally thin, or are they starving their body to look that way?” There are naturally thin people out there. No matter what they eat they always are reed thin, like my friends Geoffrey and Vicki. There are some naturally “thick” people that no matter what they do they will always have curves, like myself. (If you don’t know me personally, I am what is politely called curvaceous, Rubenesque, or well endowed.) Even at my thinnest in high school, I was still curvy with a bubble butt.

Here is the bottom line. THIN IS NOT ALWAYS BETTER THAN THICK! Consider bacon or buttercream, or hotel room walls…..

And before anyone jumps all over me about genetics, yes, that plays a big part too. But you definitely have to admit when you eat well, enjoy your food and feel good about yourself, you look better. I know when I was “dieting” I may have been thinner, but I was miserable. I sat in that room and listened to people talk about how they loved all the premade crap that comes in boxes and bags, and they were losing weight. Awesome for them, but I like REAL food. I felt cheated and frustrated, and I can promise you that it came across in my attitude about everything. You have to find the balance that works for you. I am not saying slather everything with butter, put bacon & cheese on every sandwish (yes, I did really write sandWISH), or top everything with sour cream….well, yeah, I guess I am (hehehe). But I am saying, eat what tastes good and if you can’t pronounce the ingredients (or if you don’t know what they are), you probably shouldn’t be eating it. Fun Fact: did you know that margarine is one molecule away from plastic? And think about this: If they take out the fat, where does the flavor come from? Read the labels.

Here is a little personal info too: several years ago John and I used to eat low fat, fat free and “plastic” food and my cholesterol was 230. I switched to REAL butter, full of fat sour cream and cheeses with no other changes to my intake, my cholesterol dropped to 180 in 1 year. Coincidence? I think not!

I head to San Antonio, TX tomorrow and I am trying to NOT work too much on this trip, so you may or may not get a blog next Monday. When the SATX blog posts, you will see TONS of fun pics including one of Chicken Fried Steak and Cinnamon Rolls from Lulu’s.

This week’s Food Memories are:
Scoping out small, family run joints with Friend Lynn for lunch after the next Las Vegas Cash Mob (* learn more here!)
Saturday Night Truck Stop with the Main Squeeze after a rock show at Diablo’s (John won the raffle at SNTS – dinner for 2 at SeaBlue)
Picking the first strawberries of the spring and watching my garden grow!

Baby Peach – this is one of dozens on our fledgling tree. If they all come to fruition, we’ll have a bumper crop!

The first crop of berries is looking good!

My Main Squeeze and I at Diablo’s – and yes, I am wearing my ‘stache necklace.

John enjoying a prosciutto and manchego grilled cheese at the Saturday Night truck Stop

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

Love & Marriage – the Wedding of Dear Friends

I spent the weekend in New York City to attend a wedding and those travels will be recounted in two parts – the fab cheap eats are next week!

When you go to a wedding what is it that you look forward to the most? The bride’s dress? The cake? The appetizers? The Cocktail Hour? The kiss? All of those are fantastic, but for me the best part is usually the appetizers and cocktail hour. This weekend I went to a wedding reception (the ceremony was a private affair – a la “Sex in the City”) and it was one huge cocktail party! I loved everything I ate from the truffled mushroom puffs to the broiled shrimp and everything in between. I wasn’t surprised that the food was so terrific since the married couple is incredibly stylish and both love good food.

I was delighted when they let me cook

Bobby and I met in High School and I met his partner Chris in 2010 when I went back east for a High School reunion. Bobby and I lost touch and got back together with one another a few years ago. I adore him and was thrilled to be invited to the “Schoolhouse” – literally a renovated and expanded one room school house in upstate New York. After the 3 hour ride in the car from midtown Manhattan to the “Schoolhouse”, I knew why Bobby had fallen for Chris. He’s smart, funny, sexy, and has a great sense of who he is and his sense of humor is spot on (and all of those things are true for Bobby too!)! I was delighted when they let me cook (and make cocktails) for them and we had so much fun in the kitchen! Bobby loves to cook and keeps everything light, fresh and simple. Chris was thrilled with the simple grilled dinner we tossed together and we all lounged and enjoyed each other’s company at their “Schoolhouse” (Moment of Truth – the coolest thing for me was signing the guest book immediately after Jane Krakowski from 30 Rock and Ally McBeal)!

Each wedding is different. Think of all the ones you’ve attended.

Dining with friends is one of the best things about weddings – whether it is a sit down dinner, or a buffet, or a fab cocktail reception – the camaraderie of those you know and the community building with those you don’t yet know is magical. Think about all the different kinds of weddings you have attended. Each is different and all are wonderful in their own way. Something about celebrating together makes the food taste better I think. Friday evening we met with other out of town wedding guests and had a fun celebration in the theatre district. Lots of moving around the table, laughing and sampling each other’s food went on. And to see everyone smiling and enjoying each other was truly a blessing and I was so happy to be there and meet some of the people I had heard about.

Cajun Seafood Pot Pie with cornbread topping was a risky choice that paid off – very tasty!

John and I at Angus McIndoe’s

The High Schoolers – just call us The Bridesmaids – NOT!

The High Schoolers with the Grooms!

On March 9th my dear friend was able to marry his beloved thanks to changes in the laws in the state of New York. Bobby and Chris have been together for 10 years. To put that in perspective for you:
• John and I knew each other less than one year when we wed, and we never lived together before marrying – we have been married for almost 25 years
• Over 50% of premarital cohabitating couples split up within 5 years
They have weathered the tough times together and FINALLY they can legally be married. I couldn’t possibly be happier for them.

Congrats Bobby and Chris – much love to you!

My Food Memories this week are all wedding related and NYC related – cocktails with Jane Krakowski, wedding cupcakes, lunch with Sarah and Geoffrey (and the BEST BLT ever), snacks with Tim, and wonderful cocktail hour food at the reception. I promise more Food memories of NYC next week.

Sarah and Geoffrey with us at Alice’s Tea Cup.

With old friend Tim (Click his name to see him in his new commercial)  at House of Brews

Yes. That’s really Jane Krakowski at pal Bobby’s wedding!

Two old MARRIED couples!

Until next time – go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

My Heroes Have Always Been Chefs

Yeah, I know the real lyrics to the song, but it wouldn’t be true for me.

For many people, back stage passes at a concert or all area passes on a movie set are the coolest thing imaginable. They dream of meeting their fave celeb or rock star and having a few words and hopefully a photo taken. Not me. For me, the coolest thing ever would be to meet Chefs, cook with them in their kitchen or go out to eat with them. I dream of traveling with Anthony Bourdain (Moment of Truth – he scares me a little – and so does Octavia, his wife) or Andrew Zimmern and eating everything they do and not being a wuss about anything (I draw the line at bugs). I dream of getting invited into Hubert Keller or Thomas Keller’s kitchens and learning from them while we handle sharp knives together. Sadly, this has yet to happen. The closest I ever got to any of that is meeting Culinary Giants, chatting for a few minutes and having my photo taken with them. Oddly enough, I have worked in the kitchen with Rick Moonen, twice. Yes, I was afraid – he’s intense (Hello, Pot? This is Kettle.) – but we both had a few beers and we were both relaxed enough to tolerate each other’s idiosyncrasies.

Chef Rick Moonen and I with Friend Becky. Getting the dinner prepped for Friend Sam’s Bday Party. And Yes, I had been “goosed” right when this pic was taken!

Growing up I always wanted to be where the food was, and I still do. I wanted to know how it was made, where it came from (and that is a WHOLE different blog) and who did the cooking. As a kid, I thought anyone who did the cooking was a CHEF. Of course now I know better, and while I am a really good cook, I am not a CHEF. I haven’t earned that title in any way, and I am a little ashamed/embarrassed/humbled when people call me that, even though they mean it as a compliment. I haven’t worked professionally in the field, I haven’t completed school, and I have no idea how to run a whole staff of people. THAT is what a chef does. It is so much more than just the cooking part. I have been influenced by many really great cooks throughout my life, both men and women, some who really are chefs and others who just touched my life with their food. They all inspire me and I am grateful for their presence in my life!

High school buddy, Chef Tim Grandinetti (in the toque – Chef and operator of the soon to open Spring House in Winston Salem) and Chef Nathan Duensing – Exec Sous Chef at the Michigan Ave Marriott Hotel – at The Texas Pete booth at Vegas Uncork’d 2010

With Chef Kerry Simon at KGB in Harrah’s for Hunger Action Month Kickoff Party

The Silver Fox, Chef Hubert Keller at Vegas Uncork’d 2011

Chef Beni Velazquez from Bar + Bistro at the Shuck & Swallow Oyster event at First Food & Bar (watch for him on Food Network soon!)

The charming and lovely Chef Andrew Zimmern of Bizarre Foods – one of THE nicest guys I have ever met!

So this week is more of a photo blog, of me, the people who inspire me and make me happy with their work in the kitchen and of course what I made for Valentine’s Day! It was not meant to be a retrospective on my hair, but yes, I do realize that my hair is different in every pic. And for those of you who are curious, I made Lobster Thermidor for VDay!

This week’s Food Memories are a wonderful Thai lunch with Friend Dani at Le Thai (downtown), Fancy dinner at home with the love of my life for VDay, Sushi at RM Seafood and getting to meet Andrew Zimmern.

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

Ode to Joy

First off I want to thank you all for continuing to read and share my musings. Each week the number of people I reach is bigger and bigger. THANK YOU! You have no idea how much that excites me. Did you know you can SUBSCRIBE to my blog so you never miss it? Well you can!

As Valentine’s Day approaches I am researching and seeking out a special meal for my beloved. I know, you are asking yourself, “Why don’t they just go out to eat?” Well, here’s the answer.

Several years ago while living in San Antonio, John planned a special V-Day evening out for us. He arranged a sitter, made dinner and hotel reservations on the Riverwalk and even sought out entertainment options for the evening. He did all of this WELL in advance, and NOTHING went as planned! The hotel was fine, but the restaurant in the hotel where he had made the dinner reservations had changed its set up and it was NOT what we were expecting, so we went somewhere else. As was to be expected, we had to wait 2 hours for a table because we didn’t have reservations, but we drank and snacked at the bar while we waited. After dinner we took a cab to see a drag show (Moment of Truth – I LOVE a good drag show), only to find out that the regular show was cancelled because of V-Day – I guess the Girls were all getting their happy love on. We won’t even go into what happened at the hotel upon our return, let’s just say rude neighbors, and leave it at that. We can chuckle about it now, but at the time, it wasn’t funny because John really did try to pull out all the stops.

Some people call New Year’s Eve “Amateur Night”, but John and I think of Valentine’s Day as the REAL Amateur Night. This is the night where folks who almost NEVER go out to eat, decide to try out their dining chops and make my evening miserable. When I was a waitress, I knew I would get screwed on tips because infrequent diners always thought 10% was acceptable (probably because they spent more than expected on dinner and that was what was left). And of course there is always the one person who snaps his fingers at you and shouts, “Garçon!”, like he is in some movie. and for the record folks, I have never yet met a waitperson who likes being “snapped” at. As a fellow diner I receive poor service because I tend to be polite (having walked in those shoes) and sometimes the “squeaky wheels” get the grease in the form of service and attention just to shut them up. All that said, I now cook at home for my loves.

When I do V-Day, I go BIG! I try things I have never tried before. I stretch that ever growing comfort zone. I spend the entire day shopping, crafting and tasting. I use expensive ingredients. I set a lovely table, complete with flowers and I pull out all my culinary tricks. And sometimes I try to make it a favorite of the men in my house, but also something I love as well. A past breakfast has included pannetone French toast stuffed with almond paste. Dinners have been a mixed grill, stuffed colossal shrimp (I know it’s an oxymoron), my very own “redneck” Chateaubriand and on and on. This is my first Vday alone with my hubby in 18 years. With Jack in college our eating has changed a bit. This year I am doing something I have NEVER attempted. Good or bad, you will hear about it after the event. I won’t tell you what it is, because I want it to be a surprise for John and yes, he does read and share this every week. I will give you a couple of hints:
• It’s “old school” to quote chef and friend Beni Velazquez
• It involves food from the sea
• It costs a small fortune when eaten out because it is labor intensive
Feel free to comment with your guesses! I will only publish WRONG answers so it is still a surprise for John and you’ll help him weed through guesses.

Oh, and a little more personal Valentine’s Day info – we moved into our “forever” house 4 years ago on Valentine’s Day. It was so hectic, it was take-out pizza week surrounded by friends and boxes of belongings. John said, “I forgot to get you a gift. Do you want anything special?” My reply was, “You bought me a house. Don’t you think that is enough?” That same month I met a new friend Kari – she owns and runs Retro Bakery with hubby Brian – check out her blog here

This week’s Food Memories are discovering I love Greek Yogurt with agave syrup, my first experience with Bountiful Baskets Food Co-Op, doing Restaurant Week Briefings for three of my favorite dining establishments, homemade Indian dinner with friends at home and bar dining at rm Seafood with friend Lynn. Note: Lynn and I were hit by a drunk driver on the way home from that dinner – PLEASE PEOPLE – have a Designated Driver when you go out! We are fine, but it could have been SOOOO much worse!
The pick up area for my location for Bountiful Baskets!

The Starkus Brothers at rm Seafood – read a nice write up about them from Seven Magazine here

Lovely Gin based Cocktail at rm Seafood – handcrafted by JR Starkus

New addition to the rm Seafood Menu – Clams Casino – a blast from my past!

Until next week – go out and make your OWN Food Memories!

Part 2 – Oh, SNAP! And a Cheap Recipe

If you read my post last Monday, you know that John and I participated, along with several other Las Vegans, in the SNAP Experience to help raise awareness about food insecurity. The reason for this is that the Farm Bill, of which SNAP is a part, is up for a vote. Politicians want to cut that bill in lieu of making other tough choices. Personally, I feel that everyone has the right to EAT and if they are unable to do so, for whatever reason, they need help and education to eat wisely and healthfully.

Because I cook almost everything from scratch and we don’t eat a lot of processed foods, eating the way we normally eat wasn’t TOO big a stretch. I do realize that most people don’t have the time or desire to spend the amount of time I do in the kitchen. And we did run into some personal SNAFU’s – John is a snacker and we just didn’t build money into the budget for that.

The last day was the biggest problem for us. We did fine the first 4 days of the challenge (other than not being able to snack), but the 5th day posed some really tough circumstances that had more to do with our jobs and lives than it did the program. John had a colleague come in to town who wanted to treat him to lunch. John accepted because it was a business lunch and he didn’t pay. I was leaving Friday morning for an out of town business trip (we started the SNAP Experience on Sunday rather than Monday) so I had errands to do. Of course I forgot to pack a lunch and ended up eating out and finding the cheapest option possible (at $8). The lesson here is that if we were SNAP recipients it wouldn’t have mattered that I had a business trip or that I forgot to pack a lunch, I’d still have had to eat and I would still have needed the funds to do it and I maybe wouldn’t have had them.

Here is what I learned this past week on the SNAP Experience:

• John and I are incredibly spoiled and very fortunate to have enough to eat each day
• If it weren’t for store loyalty programs (saved me $16.50) and coupons (saved me $5.00) we wouldn’t have made it thru the week. Smart shopping is not enough
• Planning is key! Even though I didn’t plan for the week, like some participants did, I planned each day because that is the way I shop.
• Protein and Produce are major expenses. We chose protein over produce because for both of us, the protein keeps us fuller longer. Not necessarily the BEST way to eat.
• For 2 adults it was doable, but I can’t imagine having to tell my kid that there was nothing else to eat. Really young kids can’t grasp that if their belly is yelling, “Fill me up!”
• We both lost weight because we weren’t snacking – a good thing.

I received a little grief from someone at the start of this. I was told that participating to raise awareness was noble, but not realistic. Basically this person said that trying to do this for a week was fine and all, but try doing it for a MONTH, or FOREVER. THAT is a real challenge. At the end of the week I was able to go back to my “normal” life. People every day are living with food insecurity and so many people are completely oblivious to the plight. This past week really opened our eyes to things we have begun to take for granted. Yes, our “Experience” ended after 5 days, but I do think I am going to be more aware of what I actually spend on food. And let’s not forget that SNAP monies can’t be used to buy laundry soap, toothpaste, diapers or anything else needed to run a home that is NOT a food product!

Not having to worry about food insecurity is a blessing for my household. I grew up in need and this just reminded me how fortunate I am and strengthened my resolve to keep working with agencies like Three Square and Feeding America to do as much as I can to educate, inspire and motivate people to get involved!

Here is a cheap recipe for you to try. I am quite sure that it isn’t authentic, but it still tastes good and even if you can’t get everything on sale, it’s still “cheap eats”. It serves 4 generously (lots of rice for me thank you very much!) for about $1.25/serving. You can add more veggies if you have them and sub firm tofu for the chicken if you are vegetarian or vegan. You can cook the rice while you are making the curry, and all together it should take you about 30 minutes.

2 cups rice – cooked according to pkg directions ($0.80)
1 small onion – chopped ($0.16)
1 Tbsp vegetable or Olive oil
1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breast – ($1.99 on sale)
2 Tbsp Thai red curry paste (found in Asian markets – about $0.50) use less if you want mild, this amount is for mild – medium.
1 – 14 oz can coconut milk ($0.89)
1 pkg – 12 oz- fresh mixed veggies – broccoli, snow peas and carrots ($0.75 on sale)

In a non stick skillet, heat oil until it shimmers and add onion. Cook until the onions start to brown, stirring frequently. Add chicken, continue cooking and stirring until chicken is cooked almost all the way thru. Add curry paste and coconut milk, stirring until the sauce is uniform in color. Add water (or chicken stock) if desired to thin the sauce a little. Bring mixture to a boil. Toss in the veggies, reduce heat, cover the skillet and steam the veggies until desired doneness (for me, about 3 minutes).

Serve immediately over hot rice.

This week’s Food Memories are eating on the lean side for the SNAP Experience, dinner at Mohawk Bend with Dave T, Laurie M and Jen R and Dave not removing his hat (from a previous blog, you know this is my biggest pet peeve),

A really good, but over priced Italian dinner with Laurie, Jen and Erin,

Lobster Bisque from that dinner

and perfectly cooked eggs at a diner (you have no idea how rare that is!).

Until next week, go out and make your OWN Food Memories.